Edited prev. post.

I edited the 'Consent?' post, trying to clarify what is actually in my head. It read as judgmental to me, which wasn't my intent, so I tried to fix it. If I failed miserably, just know that it's not what I am attempting to say in it. I am responding to some things that were niggling in the back of my head, as they relate to my life, lifestyle, situation, and relationship, not trying to play judge against other peoples ideas and preferences, or suggest that I'm 'right'. I'm just saying I'm not really 'wrong' either. :)